
Every year on the 21 September we mark World Alzheimer’s Day, in a global effort to raise awareness and challenge the stigma around Alzheimer’s disease and other dementia.
We spoke to the First Minister about being a carer for her mother with Alzheimer’s.
My mum is now 93. She has always been my greatest supporter and has helped to shape my entire life. Her driving motivation for us when we were growing up was ‘create a memory’. We spent our whole childhoods being active – creating memories – so it is sad and ironic that today the woman who encouraged us to create memories has almost no memories of her own left to hold onto.
She was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s more than five years ago now. Despite the cruelty of the disease, it brings me joy to be able to give back to her. I really value the quality time I spend with her.
But if I’m honest it also often drives me nuts. The change of pace is a challenge, especially for someone like me who lives life at 100 miles an hour. I have to slow down to a point of almost stopping.
That is really difficult, and as her condition deteriorates and she needs more intimate support, it is a challenge to do this whilst honouring and respecting her dignity. It’s a reversal of roles compared with when I was a child. But what is lovely, and makes the time so special, is when that glimmer of my Mum, as she was, shines through and is still there.
She’s still constantly sharing anything she’s got and trying to serve in any way she can. So, we have to leave her some washing up to do so that she feels a sense of purpose and still has a role in the family.
It is really challenging but it’s also lovely. I try to return to Pembrokeshire as much as I can to make sure I spend time with her.
I so value our time together. I know that there are tens of thousands like me up and down the country putting the support in for their loved ones.
On World Alzheimer’s Day I want to say thanks to all the paid and unpaid carers in our nation. I salute you all for the amazing work you do.








